Does Christian genre fiction have groupies? Like the Trekkies? Let’s hope this is just fiction.
Part 5 of Desperately Seeking, our video Bible study for singles. Share and enjoy.
What do you think of Doug?
What are some good things we can say about Doug?
If he asked, would you go to the movies with Doug?
Regardless of what you may think about his taste in movies and literature, we’re all a little like Doug. Some of us love science fiction and comic books. Some are sports fans. Some like art and classical music. And some people can’t get enough of professional wrestling.
Finding things in common with a mate is important, but what commonalities are most important? As Christians we need to be seeking people who are like-minded in their faith. We need to find someone who shares our values so that we can live out our faith and pass it on to our children.
The focus of this series on making the most of our single days, but that doesn’t mean we can’t do that with an eye to the future. Learn now what’s most important to you in a husband or wife. Make your list of intangibles, and don’t compromise those in the slightest. There are worse things than being single, and being “unequally yoked” is one.
Read 2 Corinthians 6:14-18
What does it mean to be yoked? (Feel free to have someone Google this question if need be!)
Why does Paul caution against being unequally yoked?
Why would being married to an unbeliever be hard?
How would marrying an unbeliever make raising children who love Jesus difficult?
What are some things you simply couldn’t live with in a mate? Is there anything that’s come up in a past relationship, even something small, that you just couldn’t live with? (This doesn’t have to be a serious thing; it can be small or funny.)
Have any of you ever tried “missionary dating,” dating someone to try to lead them to Christ? How did that work out for you?
Is there value in knowing what you can and can’t live with in a mate before dating?
Have each person in the group come up with a list of five things they think are most important in a mate. Share your lists, and see if you can come up with a master list.
Make us wise as look for your will in our lives. Help us to cling to what’s most important so that we won’t compromise our faith. Bless us with godly spouses who build us up in Christ.
In Jesus’ name,